The Moment of Clarity comes when you extend you to something undeserving, the moment of path comes when you extend your heart to something or someone undeserving.  How many times will you extend before they reach their moment of clarity in the part you played in their path? when will you know to let go?  Why don't you know you were there for their growth? and yet you felt the wrath.  Not until you see the works/results of "Him" in that path you chose, or for better saying, the path that chose you, will you see your
own worth.  Often times you beat yourself up on could of's, should of's, and would of's, instead of Impressions and Blessings.  Often times you get mistreated on being the best to someone, not being your best, but being the best to someone, leaving you with a thought of weakness of yourself.  Know, those who did the mistreatin' suffered way more than you receiving it, your first clue is the act itself, they already feel they are not worthy.  Continue to be you, Continue to leave those Impressions, and Lastly Continue to be those Blessings.


                                                                            Love Dare,

"DARE"
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The Cast of Born & Raised. Great Film about "A Young Man Tied To His Hometown. A Grandfather Tied To Nothing. Bound Together By Friendship.

The Cast Of Born & Raised

Film Written and Produced by Nick Loritsch

WWW.BornAndRaisedMovie.Com

"In a Small, Seaside town, a young man learns a thing or two about love, luck and life from his well traveled, outlaw grandfather.  Born & Raised is a rough, tough, coming-of-age drama, with a lot of heart and a ton of laughs."

I have most certainly have had the greatest pleasure in being invited to watch the movie screening of a wonderful heartfelt movie "Born & Raised".  The Screening was held at the Dreamworks Studios, In Burbank Ca, where Hits are made....This movie touches your heart, and just captures you in every way.  The characters were perfectly matched for their roles as if they were born right into them.  The connection, and the chemistry of all actors just flowed so well, to the point of being able to feel each personality and relating relating to each of their reality. Great Movie, Great Cast...

After Screening This Awesome Film,

I had The Pleasure of having a one on one with Actor Keith Hudson who plays "Kenny" the best friend to "Bubb", the character of Actor/Writer/Producer, "Nick Loritsch".  Keith brings life, to an incredible friendship between to young men just growing in the winds of life. They share a bond no one can break, except one.

Keith Hudson is a talented young actor, writer and producer.  He was born January 4, 1982 in Mobile, Alabama. He was raised by two loving women, his mother and grandmother. Growing up Keith has always known he was going to be an actor. Keith loved performing in the living room for family and friends. His mother saw the strong passion within her son come out even more at the age of eight. Keith’s mother knew her son was given a true God given talent, she believed others had to see. She decided to sign Keith up to perform in church plays and other productions in the community.

During junior high and high school Keith turned away from acting and focused on sports. Even though Keith’s focus was on sports, the acting bug remained in his system. After graduating high school Keith attended Auburn University of Montgomery. It was there where the acting bug fully took hold of him. Keith enrolled in beginning acting courses, only for a short time. Once the instructors saw Keith’s talent and passion they moved him right up into the advanced acting courses. He used every opportunity that came his way, to participate in plays, talent shows, student films, and independent films, etc. There was no stopping Keith Hudson!

Keith decided to join the military. He served our country for seven years, all the while his passion for acting continued to intensify. Keith knew once his term with the military was over it was time to chase his dream and make it a reality.

In 2005 Keith packed up, jumped in his car and said goodbye to Mobile, Alabama. It was time to make the big move to Hollywood and fully submerge himself in his dream. Keith knew it wasn’t going to be easy coming from a small town to a big city, but he was determined to make it! 

He began taking acting classes, and began perfecting his gift by imitating, and watching his favorite actors; Keith David, Denzel Washington, Morgan Freeman and Johnny Depp. He knew he had to put in the effort and time. He refused to just sit back with the hopes that things would just happen for him, he was determined to get out and be the best.

Not only is Keith Hudson a phenomenal actor, he’s also an extremely talented writer and producer. He enjoys challenging rolls that push him to the limit.

He quotes:  "ALWAYS WORK HARD, STAY GROUNDED, AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF."

With all that being said, and with all that drive Keith has inside, he is not done....Please look forward to his upcoming project "Nevaeh" In which he Stars in,Wrote, Produced, and Directed. Oh and yes I have my Little Cameo, Stay tuned y'all

  LOVE DARE!!!!

                "The Woman”

Empowering, Self Sufficient, Trustworthy, Never living by society’s rule, but living by faith.  A kindred spirit with determination, A leader of strength & Encouragement, pushing through all obstacles.  Holding qualities of A Mother, A Wife, A Dime, A Boss, A “10BOSS”!!

N.W.A...Niggaz Wit Attitude, Now casting for what was and will remain history. The most popular rap group in the 80's, also known as the most ruthless group ever.   Their debut album titled N.W.A Straight Outta Compton, Active from 1986 to 1991, and this group endured a lot of controversy due to the explicit lyrics used in every rap album they ever produced.  Causing them to be banned from mainstream radio stations in the U.S., this did not stop the popularity of N.W.A, they still managed to sell 10 million CD's in the U.S. alone. Rolling Stone even marked N.W.A # 83 in their list of 100 Greatest of All time, the group was assembled by Eazy-E, who co-founded Ruthless with Jerry Heller. Initially, N.W.A consisted of Eazy-E and Dr. Dre, Recruited  DJ Yella, Dre and Yella were both former members of the World Class Wreckin' Cru, as DJs and producers. Ice Cube was added to the roster after he had started out as a rapper for the group "C.I.A." Ruthless released the single "Panic Zone" in 1987 with Macola Records, which was later included on the compilation album N.W.A and the Posse. N.W.A was still in its early stages, and is only on three of the eleven tracks, "Panic Zone," "8-Ball," "Dope man," which marked the first collabo. of Arabian Prince, DJ. Yella, Dr. Dre, and Ice Cube. Mexican rapper Krazy-Dee co-wrote "Panic Zone," which was originally called "Hispanic Zone," but the title was later changed when Dr. Dre advised Krazy-Dee that the word "hispanic" would hinder sales. In 1988, rapper MC Ren joined the group. REN is known for his "Final Frontier" "Ruthless For Life", "Forget What Ya Heard", "Tha Real" ft. Eazy E., and many more.  

Ice Cube, O'Shea Jackson, Rapper, Record Producer, Actor, Screenwriter, Film producer, and Director. began his career as a member of the C.I.A and later joined with N.W.A.  In 1989 he departed the group feeling he was not getting his fair share in the money and profits, he branched off on his own to produce his first album in 1990 "Amerikkkas Most Wanted".  Second album "I Am The West" and of course album three "Death Certificate" First Hit I remember had everyone Rockin' too was "No Vaseline". The Dis song to Dr. Dre, Eazy E., MC. REN, ( I remember when you drove a B210.) Awesome album that sold 105,000 copies. As time went on, Ice Cube grew and all animosity came to a close.  In 1991 all would start to come to an end, last album produced would be "Niggaz4Life".  Reunions tried to come alive, but due to conflicting schedules, it would never become a success.  1995 Eazy E., Eric Wright became ill from Complications of AIDS.

On March 15, Eric "Eazy-E" Wright lay in the intensive care unit of Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles. He was 31 years old and fighting for his life. Heavily sedated, Eazy-E had a respirator tube running down his throat to help him breathe. In the cramped, fluorescent-lit room, a few close friends and Tomica Woods-his new wife and the mother of his youngest son-gathered around his bed.

The announcement that Eazy had AIDS sent shock waves throughout the hip hop nation. Fans, friends, even journalists wept openly on March 16 as his attorney, Ron Sweeney, read a statement from his client outside the old Motown building in Hollywood. The founder of N.W.A, the man who popularized gangsta rap worldwide, was suddenly thrust into the role of AIDS educator: "I would like to turn my own problem into something good that will reach out to all my homeboys, " Eazy said through Sweeney. "I want to save their asses before it's too late. I'm not looking to blame anyone except myself. 

Though Eazy didn't say (and perhaps didn't know) how he contracted the virus, he implied that it was through unprotected sex with women. "I have seven children by six different mothers, " said the statement. "Maybe success was too good to me." At the Beat, L.A.'s KKBT-FM, where Eazy had hosted a show every Saturday, the phone rang. It was Snoop Doggy Dogg, who, in a call filled with long, pregnant silences, said he was praying for Eazy. The next day Ice Cube phoned in. (via EazyE.com) 

SO be prepared to once again visit the history that opened so many eyes, through explicit expression, which is of the norm in 2012. N.W.A, "Niggaz Wit Attitude" The Movie.......NOW CASTING!!! 

Slowly I held my hung my head low due to my own trials, my own character, my own choices. Slowly those trials, that character, those self picked choices came alive, came alive to burn me straight in the ass, looking for the ointment to heal and close all that came alive.  Broke me down, bent and broke my knees until I stayed down, until I couldn't find my way back up looking for any and everyone, to help me with this burn that just would not heal.  I searched and I called, I downloaded a word, I you tubed a prayer.

 I cried to no end and yet continued to burn, no answers, nothing I wanted or was ready to hear came alive.  Didn't want the truth, yet I sought it, I knew there was an answer, but the burn wouldn't heal, it wouldn't heal because I wouldn't let go, because I wanted to hear the answer I wanted to hear.  I couldn't find the answer because no matter where I went, it wasn't my answer.  I had to prove me right, I had to know, I wouldn't let go, I wouldn't let God.  I turned on me, I turned on them, I turned on what was best for me, I refused to see, I refused to hear what he had for me. one day it clicked, all that I listened too, all that I downloaded, all that I you tubed, all that I read, came to life. my tears dried up, my ears widened, my hope got stronger, my strength got better...he showed me each burn, he showed me each turn, he showed me the ointment for my last burn.  He showed me I was right, he showed me the whole situation, he showed me it wasn't for me. It wasn't for me because he wants me at peace, and that situation has no peace.  

That's why I couldn't find the ointment, I just couldn't see.. finally I realized, finally I let go. Something else came before me and now I truly know...Never put a situation, Person, Material Thing, or Feeling, above him.  They can't give me him, BUT he can give me them!!! too many I's and not enough Thy's. (Thy will Be done)

  Love Dare...

“Dare Boss”

Empowering, Self Sufficient, Trustworthy, Never living by society’s rule, but living by faith. A kindred spirit with determination, A leader of strength & Encouragement, pushing through all obstacles. Holding qualities of A Mother, A Wife, A Dime, A Boss, A “10BOSS”!!

Success: The attainment of Wealth, Position, Honors, or the like.

Entrepreneur: One who Organizes, Manages, and assumes the risks of a business or enterprise.

Entrepreneurship is not about owning a business; it’s about owning your life. How many times have you said you are going to be successful, how many ideas are in your head, in which you have yet to act on. In the beginning we are shown an adults future via of school, five days a week does not belong to you. Two days out of the week are yours to do whatever you choose, whether it is to read, study, focus, play, sleep, etc. in it all, it’s a train ride to successes. Some never stay on the train, stopping at what becomes pleasing to the eye, creating downfalls and delays.

I bring this to your attention, because in life we are free to make our own choices. The choices you make will determine your success, yes success of wealth, but “Your” success, “You” success. Chasing of a dream does not have to be a chase, if “You” choose for you wisely. It all starts with you, look back at how your life was presented to you, in which parts did you have the opportunity to avoid a lot of events to put a delay in your future, your success. You can even start with the little warnings of school days, when you got your progress reports, parent teacher conferences, there are many warnings in life that we choose to ignore. Graciously enough we are spared through God’s grace, knowledge and experience. When you have been Blessed in life, you start to feel “Oh I got this”, then make those choices of downfalls once again. Experience is a great teacher; it’s what you do with the lesson that comes from that experience is the question and determination of your success, The “You” success. You have to remain on the right train to your success, staying focused can become one of the hardest moves to accomplish. For instance having the heart to please everyone and in the process does nothing but push “You” back. Stop allowing something to divert your attention which will ultimately cost “You” your place in God.

When your heart is in the right place, your desires will be in the right place. Don’t let a temporary pleasure divert your desires that are promised to you, don’t give up everything for one small piece of fruit. A temporary fix, a Sick fix (Kim’s great words), that will kill your spirit and cause you to have difficulty shaking the pain of “Your” actions. “You” are in control of your own Entrepreneurships; it’s plural because it first starts with “You” then your business success. Keep your mind right, you will need it for “Your” success, you will need it when “You” are Blessed with those Millions, whether it’s the Million of a right mind, or the Millions of the right Mind, Heart, and Finance. When you are right, the visions and desires will fall into place peacefully!!! Watch “Your” steps. Dedicate yourself to your dreams starting with “You”, gain your self confidence, get knowledge, stick to what you’re good at, stop doing and focusing on what you’re bad at. When you do that, you find yourself in a constant battle of trying to make others happy, and no matter what you do in the process, it will never get accomplished. (Watch what diverts your attention).

If you want it, then you MUST work hard, harder than the average. Losing sleep in the process, ignoring the naysayers, ignoring who is not there for you to help you push your dream, ignoring those who are afraid to tell you, you are doing a great job, ignoring those who have too much pride and see the success in you, and ignores you. Instead of being hurt by those, be Blessed by all of them. Use that as gas for your dreams, keep going and never be ashamed of “You”. You will know when you are on the right track when you have been validated through your spirit, and not people, when you are not hindered or bothered by who is not there for you. Most of all you will know when you have become dismantled from everything you know to be familiar, and it all becomes foreign, That’s when it all comes together, that’s when “You” come together. That’s when your Entrepreneurships begin.

So now do you understand the first step of becoming a successful Entrepreneur, It starts in “YOU”.


Keeping “You” in line, it’s Dare Y’all…..Stay Blessed and Focused.

"10Boss Entertainment"

You cannot live your life for everyone sometimes it even includes your family!! You were put here for only one’s purpose and that’s for The Lord our God. In most cases more often than not, we try to please others, stroke their egos to make them feel good of their deposit into your life, and in your heart, you know they are just not right. There are people who become bullies, control freaks, know it all’s, the un-trainable, and the un-obtainable. These types of people must be center of attraction, attracts many people, but go through so many friends, and even will distant loved ones, never seeing themselves as a fault of an ending relationship, can never take constructive criticism, and can never be wrong! These types of people have prideful issues, grudge holding issues, oh perfect me issues, but stand behind closed doors with a heart full of tears, because they just can’t seem to see why things happen to them.

Let me start here: Giving; giving comes from the heart, giving is to be a gift to another, a deposit into one’s life to help them in their next moment, thought, decision, or even their journey. God gives us all the ability to give and be able to bless others, the blessing of deposit does not have to be monetary, it can be a word, love, company, encouragement, wisdom, whatever you wish to call it, and it is never to be taken as being used. A person who must be in control, does not know how to not look back on a deposit, not feel like they are being used, nor can they take the back seat and learn from someone well advanced or even notice someone well advanced, young or old. Reaping what you sew, drop and go. Because you have given, put a stamp on it, done something elaborate does not mean you control that person or situation, it’s not yours, you were just a vessel ordered by God, to get it for them, or to get them going. I have encountered such people who feel the need to control friends, family, or anyone who doesn’t now they’re own “VOICE”, because these type of people validates this type of person

Beauty, Money, Hard Working, House, Cars, means nothing if you are not living right by God, you can not do God’s work and live in sin. The two do not go together, “Not everyone who says Lord, lord, will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my father who is in heaven, on that day many will say to me, Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name? (didn’t we help others, give to others) then will God declare to them, “I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness. In other words, you can’t think just because you smile on someone, give to someone, mention the Lords name to someone, etc…is suppose to sit well with God and you are living foul. Tearing down homes, speaking negative on his people, not dropping positive deposits on others, as well as giving and having a look of return deposit, and unhappy because it does not come. Don’t expect the kind of love that someone so simple gets. That simple person does not need a brag or boast, does not need a shout out, does not need a return deposit. That simple person is just happy doing the work of the Lord, to make a happy heart. What these people do not understand, is God will bless a simple person, and they don’t even look for it. The simple person will have all kinds of people just blessing them, just because they are “just” simple and is well with it. The one who has to shine, the one who has to have a name on it, grows tired, looks tired, grows angry, grows prideful, holds grudges, because the work they did, has not been given any acknowledgement. All they have given was nice, was major, was lavish, and maybe out of this world, But it never came with love, it came with it’s all on me, but here you go, it came with look what I did, but here you go…who do I run to, but here you go, all that I had to sacrifice, but here you go, and that’s not how God sees a child of his.

If you can not open yourself up to see beyond “YOU”, then you will forever be on your knees crying, why me, why do I continue in struggle, why don’t I get the things of a simple person. Most of all, you will always have to hide behind the hardcore but really weak representative outer shell. Don’t hide behind the one’s who can’t carry their own voice, or even too scared to speak their mind, because of your foul reaction. Actually, those are simple people too, who yet to know their self worth. Yet do not know how to handle someone who can’t handle themselves…

God Needs no “Validation”, his works speaks for himself….

I Need no “Validation” because his works through me, will speak for itself.

“You” will not need any “Validation” if you open your eyes.

Do you really need “Validation” to get to your next moment/Level??

Every day we complain of something, every day we compare ourselves to others, every day we wish this and we wish that, every day we stay in search of love, to be a part of someone’s life. We think a good job is Satisfaction, to who everyone else….he/she has a good job, why do we settle, is it out of laziness, lack of Faith, knowledge, perhaps too much television. You work a job for many many years and get complacent. Oh it pays the bills, I have a retirement building. There are complaints of food, clothing, Joy, There are people who has no clue of life, but what is dealt in front of them due to lack of knowledge, they say if you want to hide something to put it in a book. If God has it for you, he is going to make you find it, build it from scratch. I look at Madam C.J. Walker, real birth name:

• Sarah Breedlove. Born December 23, 1867 in Delta Louisiana Left this earth May 25, 1919 in Irvington-on-Hudson, New York, from complications of hypertension. Upon her death she was considered to be the wealthiest African-American woman in America and known to be the first African-American woman millionaire. Some sources cite her as the first self-made American woman millionaire. Her daughter Leila succeeded her as president of the Madam C. J. Walker Manufacturing Company. Madam Walker was an entrepreneur who built her empire developing hair products for black women. She claims to have built her company on an actual dream where a large black man appeared to her and gave her a formula for curing baldness. When confronted with the idea that she was trying to conform black women's hair to that of whites, she stressed that her products were simply an attempt to help black women take proper care of their hair and promote its growth. “I got my start by giving myself a start.

• I am a woman who came from the cotton fields of the South. From there I was promoted to the washtub. From there I was promoted to the cook kitchen. And from there I promoted myself into the business of manufacturing hair goods and preparations. I have built my own factory on my own ground.

• I had to make my own living and my own opportunity. But I made it! Don’t sit down and wait for the opportunities to come. Get up and make them.

• One night I had a dream, and in that dream a big black man appeared to me and told me what to mix up for my hair. I made up my mind I would begin to sell it.

• I am not satisfied in making money for myself. I Endeavour to provide employment for hundreds of the women of my race.

• There is no royal flower-strewn path to success. And if there is, I have not found it for if I have accomplished anything in life it is because I have been willing to work hard.

• Perseverance is my motto.

Madam C.J. Walker is an incredible inspiration for me, for anyone, she was determined and had children to care for. Her world back then was definitely worse than what we even have or complain about these days. Everyone was given a God given talent, and laziness plays a big part, she went from cotton fields to washing tubs, to the kitchen. She used all that money and hard work to start her multimillion dollar business. You can’t tell me you can’t do it, I know I am so tired of working my job and like her, It’s a stepping stone to my Blessing, to my purpose, to my happiness. I refuse to believe my daily routine of clocking in and out is all I have in this life. Thankful for my job, but I’m going after what has been set for me. It’s Dare y’all and if I leave you with anything, I leave you with this, It is never too late…

A strong person knows how to keep their life in order. Even with tears in their eyes, they still manage to say i'm ok with a smile; they will take your problems and their problems and figure them out. They will take all the pain and yet manage to stay "Beautiful", they will turn the other cheek, pray for you, check on you, Love you. A strong person will seek more guidance, knowledge, truth. Never will they be boastful, Prideful, envious, yet they will praise, help, give, seek, motivate, and feed. They will express truth, stay humble, cry behind doors, get up and have a great day, believe. A strong person never takes no for an answer, will not be broken down, does not believe in the words I can't, and won't let you believe either. They will show you, you just through love and never have to say a word. God is not telling you to turn for nothing; he has not given you a guide to just ignore. Ever given up and all worked in your favor, ever given up and because of emotion you acted out terribly, with terrible results. Finding out in the end, it still was working in your favor, but you lost patience and acted out too soon, acted on those emotions that were boiling up inside, and all you had to do was pray, and pick up that guide. I once failed, picked up my guide, put it down, failed again. what is it, "Seven" times. Seeking Krazy Glue now, by far am I perfect, but I get what only works for me, and it's not "ME". Picking up my guide once again!! Go find yours...